YOU MIGHT AS WELL LOVE

For so many reasons, obvious and otherwise, I’ve returned to reading one poem
by another writer and writing one new prayer of my own, every day, in an effort to
anchor myself in a moment that my heart is trying to navigate with as much love
and grace as possible each day. This poem, The Facts of Life, by Irish poet
Pádraig Ó Tuama, rang through me like a bell above clear water, so I hoped it
might ring within you, too. Listen to him read it here at On Being, and know that
I am sending love and blessings to each one of you as we find our way.

THE FACTS OF LIFE

That you were born
and you will die.

That you will sometimes love enough
and sometimes not.

That you will lie
if only to yourself.

That you will get tired.

That you will learn most from the situations
you did not choose.

That there will be some things that move you
more than you can say.

That you will live
that you must be loved.

That you will avoid questions most urgently in need of
your attention.

That you began as the fusion of a sperm and an egg
of two people who once were strangers
and may well still be.

That life isn’t fair.
That life is sometimes good
and sometimes better than good.

That life is often not so good.

That life is real
and if you can survive it, well,
survive it well
with love
and art
and meaning given
where meaning’s scarce.

That you will learn to live with regret.
That you will learn to live with respect.

That the structures that constrict you
may not be permanently constraining.
That you will probably be okay.

That you must accept change
before you die
but you will die anyway.

So you might as well live
and you might as well love.
You might as well love.
You might as well love.

Pádraig Ó Tuama 
From Sorry for Your Troubles, Canterbury Press, 2013

ALL PEACE TO EACH ONE OF YOU. And love. Dora